What is Kept?
Tasks, rules & discipline
Tasks can be once-off or recurring — timed, duration, photo-evidence, GPS, NFC-tag, video- or audio-tracked, or broken into ordered stages that stay hidden until the one before is done — each with its own time-sensitive acknowledgement window, for that grip on your partner even at a distance. Standing rules and agreements sit apart from tasks, with a full edit history and dual consent required before a change takes effect. Recurring rituals and goals — daily and weekly, counters, streaks, observances — carry none of a task’s pass/fail weight. Rewards and punishments run off reusable presets and can fire automatically on completion, failure, or a streak, with a full history both partners can see, and a sub can request leniency, self-report a failure honestly, or propose their own tasks, presets, and rituals for the Dom to approve.
Chastity tracking
A live countdown with a full history of every lock, unlock, and time change, each with its reason logged, plus an emergency unlock when it’s needed. Extension rules can tie automatically to task outcomes, equipment-linked stats track streaks and personal records per device, and a widget keeps the timer visible on the Android or iOS home screen without opening the app.
Scene planning
A scene moves through planning, approval, preparation, execution, aftercare, and a structured review, in whichever of three modes fits — planned together, run as a surprise with stages revealed one at a time, or proposed by the sub for the Dom to approve. Equipment checklists, pre-scene prep tasks, and a safeword control that stays on screen throughout keep the mechanics out of the way of the scene itself.
Hardware integrations
OpenShock sends shock, vibrate, and beep commands with configurable safety caps and cooldowns, wired straight into punishments and rewards. Buttplug and Intiface add vibrate, rotate, and linear control from either partner. Clicker training is a real-time praise button, gated by a permission setting each person controls themselves — it isn’t only a Dom-to-sub tool. On Android, GPS geofencing and NFC tag scanning can complete a task automatically.
Consent & safety
A roughly 150-item kink checklist is filled out independently by both of you and compared side by side once you’ve each submitted — a hard limit on either side blocks matching tasks and scenes automatically. A safeword instantly pauses an active scene, stops every device command, and notifies the Dom, and an emergency safety contact — added only with their explicit consent — is notified if a safeword goes unacknowledged or a check-in is missed. Blackout periods and mood check-ins keep tasks from landing during time you’ve marked off, or while a distress flag is still open. Relationship documents and protocols are versioned, with both of you required to acknowledge each version, and either side can propose an amendment instead of one person rewriting it alone. In development: peer-visible partner safety reviewing, so a concern flagged about someone can be seen by others before they engage — today, reports go to admin moderation only, and a block always overrides any other permission in the app.
Reflection & history
A journal that’s private by default or shared with your Dom, who can reply to entries you share. A running list of wants and needs, visible to your Dom only for the items you choose to show them. A shared board for scene ideas, with threaded discussion and ratings once you’ve tried one. A rolling review pulls task outcomes, rewards, punishments, and journal themes together automatically, backed by a full audit trail either of you can export.
Relationship structure
One Dom can have multiple subs, and a Switch can be a sub in one relationship and a Dom in another at the same time. Approved play lets a primary Dom extend supervised access to another Dom, with restrictions set per arrangement and full consent and revoke control throughout. Trust tiers set exactly what a partner can see or do — media sharing, task requests, dares, hardware control, profile visibility — instead of one all-or-nothing switch.
Community, opt-in
A feed, friends, and groups for finding other like-minded people and events, joined by category, tag, or interest. Discover browses public profiles by role, location, and interests, and the community gallery is open to browse before you ever make an account. Public profiles have visibility controls on every field, kink-list sharing is opt-in, and messaging carries block and report controls that always win, ahead of any other permission in the app.
Built to last
Two-factor authentication, a session list you can review and revoke from, and sign-in with Google or Apple. Self-service data export and account deletion, quiet hours for notifications, and native apps for Android and iOS alongside the web app — built mobile-first, so what you get on your phone is the same as what you get in a browser.
Want the mechanics in full? The guides walk through everything here, from first setup to safety.
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