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Guides
Short reads on how Kept works, from setup to safety.
What is Kept?
Overview
Kept is primarily a way to manage a dynamic. For forgetful people like me, I tend to forget when I am given tasks or punishments, or…
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How did this happen?
This started as a project to learn how to make mobile apps. I wanted to make a simple chastity timer. Then I thought some task lists would…
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What's the catch?
At the moment, there is none. While the app is in beta testing, it's free for you to use and see if it's something you like, suggest…
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Who made this?
Just a massive kinky nerd from Melbourne, Australia. I have had lots of experiences with the kink community, both locally and online, and a…
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Getting started
Setting up your role and profile
Kept sets your role, Dom, Sub, or Switch, on your profile, and you can change it later if your dynamic changes. A Switch's screens and…
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Connecting with a partner
A relationship in Kept starts with an invite, not a search. From Relationships, a Dom generates an invite code after confirming a short…
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How tasks work
A task moves through a small set of states. A Dom assigns one directly, or a Sub proposes one, if the Dom has turned on task requests, for…
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Points: how they work
Points are a spendable balance, not a rating. They are stored as a ledger of individual events, each with its own reason, and the balance…
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Chastity terms explained: lock, hygiene openings, and rolls
A few terms that come up on the Chastity screen, explained.
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Rules, consequences and rituals
The living contract: rules, proposals and amendments
The Contract page is a read-only composite: your active rules, open-ended recurring tasks, rituals, both partners' limits, and any shared…
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Punishments and rewards
A Dom builds punishment presets, and optionally chains, several steps triggered as a sequence, ahead of time, then fires one from…
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Rituals: recurring observances without deadlines
A ritual isn't a task with a due date attached. It's a daily or weekly observance with no deadline and no penalty for missing one, tracked…
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Consent, limits and safety
Consent tracking and revocation
The Consent page records when each partner agreed, when either last reconfirmed, and, if the Dom has set a reconfirmation interval, when…
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Kink checklist and limits
The kink checklist runs through a shared list of activities and interests, each answered on a seven-point scale: Yes, Sometimes, Maybe…
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Safety contact and the session safety timer
A safety contact is someone outside your relationship, an in-app Kept user or an email address, notified if a safeword you've acknowledged…
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Blackout periods and scheduling
A blackout is a window, set by the Sub on the Scheduling page, during which new tasks can't be assigned. It's the Sub's control: a Dom can…
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Community
Profiles, Discover and the community gallery
Nothing about your account is visible outside your relationships until you turn it on. A public profile is off by default, and enabling it…
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Groups
A group can be Open (join immediately), Approval required (an owner or moderator has to accept you), or Invite only (you need a code)…
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Privacy & safety
Hiding Kept on your phone
If your phone is visible to other people (a shared house, family, a partner who isn't part of your dynamic, a workplace), Kept has a few…
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Setting up two-factor authentication
Two-factor authentication (TOTP, the six-digit code from an authenticator app) adds a second check beyond your password when signing in, so…
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Integrations
OpenShock
OpenShock is an open source way to control dog training collars over the internet. If you have already figured out the rest, I like you.
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Buttplug.io
Buttplug.io is a way to control app controlled toys over the internet. While the name would imply this just is buttplugs, it can control a…
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Troubleshooting
Why is my relationship "On hold"?
"On hold" is what the app calls a Suspended relationship. Nothing about the underlying relationship is deleted: tasks, history, and…
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Does Kept have paid subscriptions?
Not at the moment. Kept has no paid subscriptions, billing, or in-app purchases, and everything in the app is free to use. If you're seeing…
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How do I export my data or delete my account?
Both live under Account -> Your data, and both work the same way on every platform.
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A task or chastity action didn't go through: what to check
When a task or chastity action fails, the error names a specific reason. These are the common ones.
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How do I contact support?
There's a feedback form reachable from the home page. It goes directly to the people running Kept, over the same channel bug reports and…
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